Your Questions About Divorce Law In India For Men

i would like to know if it is hard for men in India to file for divorce?

i luv a guy who is indian he is married and has a kid. he had a really bad marriage before he even met me. we are really in luv more like true soulmates. he says it is very difficult for him to file for divorce as it could take years to resolve. he has moved out of the country and is separated from his wife. since i’m not indian and am in another country, it is difficult for me to understand indian law. he says since he is separated he will eventually get his wife to agree for a mutual agreement of divorce. i know for a for a fact that he loves me and can die for me..i just need to know how difficult it is to get a divorce in india and the legal aspects. if anyone could please help. ( i may sound like the other woman but its not like that at all..we luv eachother, his wife has had an affair and doesnt luv him and is in marriage only coz she wants him to give her all the property she can fleece out of him)

American dogs have more Rights than, Men of India.?

http://mynation.wordpress.com/2007/10/17/american-dogs-has-more-rights-than-men-of-india/#comment-1773

I Found this on Blog; how many agree with this…

we have nothing against or in support to Ellen DeGeneres or Iggy; In west even doggs have so much rights and enjoy freedom; but in india, even men do not have single rights.

with one word of his wife he and his whole family, including his old parenst can be jailed for endless days without bail.
Even his married sisters and her children; who has nothing do with this man family matters and stay far away,even his wife never seen them can be booked and jailed for no reason. and it take years to get out of this case.
Even if husband caught his wife red handed with other man in compromising position it take years to get divorce; if his wife is not coming to court.
Even wife had pre / extra marital Affairs;still law force man to pay for her.
if divorced man has no right over his own children; and he can be denied even visitations

Do you believe government of India should make nuclear family compulsory to reduce divorce rate?

Believe it or not, almost 90% of divorce happens due to inlaws interference and their ill-treatment towards daughter in law. In India daughter in law is considered as free servant. If we want to reduce divorce rate in India and bring equality between man and woman then nuclear family should be made compulsory. That is, there should be law that all the guys has to move out of his parents’ house as soon as he get married and should have a separate living arrangement for him and his wife. If a girl leaves her family after getting married then why can’t boys. And when parents become ill or can’t take care of themselves then all brothers and sisters should share responsibility & everyone should take care of parents one by one. Why all burden of taking care is thrown on daughter in law. Daughter should physically take care while son can help financially, a burden should not be thrown only on daughter in law and also not on son in law.
@ Zypher, divorce happens coz inlaws abuse daughter in law and husband do nothing about it and let it happens. He don’t side with his wife. I am the victim of it & result is divorce. Tell me you want your wife to adjust in joint family but if your parents/siblings abuse your wife, would you stand up for her? Why don’t you guys side with your wife & don’t believe your complaints huh. You guys blindly trust your family but atleast try to check whts going on? Do u even understand her feelings? Do you understand tht when you leave for office how she is treated like a servant at home by your mother.
@ Zypher and all men who come accross this post, read my above additional details and pls reply. Zypher, I hope you open this question again, check this and answer me. If u ppl has to choose ur parents then why don’t u marry them and why do u marry a girl and spoil her life by letting ur family get on her.
Sorry ppl, I think I need to calm down, but seriously, think abt it.

how to get divorce in india for Male?

my brother in law is married for more than year and he is not happy with his marriage life. His wife is from different state and has very different living style and way of thinking. she is from very small village with lots of insecurity feeling, confused, depressed and not interested at all in learning new way of life in metro city. She doesn’t not know much about today’s modern life style. She constantly getting in fight with my brother in law for silly things and has no capacity what so ever to understand him. He is MCA and bright professional but it has become virtually impossible to leave with her any more. Her father keeps saying that don’t dare to think about divorce, otherwise he will complaint against him and his mother(he doesn’t have father) in abusing and torture case. her farther threats to kill my brother in law and other who supports him. he came over his house with Gun and took away his passport to make sure he can not travel. There is no place for trust at all and everyday she has something to fight about. Her mother is asking my brother in law to send his mom(my widowed mother in law) away from house. My brother in law really wants to end this relationship and start new life with other girl he knew from college. His wife’s family started targeting that girl too and threaten her too.

Real question is, Can Man in India ask for divorce if his marriage is not working out for such reasons and if his wife does not agree to divorce and continue such misbehave, mental torture and make his life miserable????

Confused about bigamy law in India. Please help answer my question.?

I got married to an indian girl about six years ago and right after the marriage we decided not to live together because it was an arranged marriage. We both weren’t happy. I came back to Canada, never sponsored here and she also did not want to move to Canada. After a few months, she married to another man in Punjab, India and i got married to another woman in India a few years after when i went back to India. The problem is that we never got divorced. We both know that according to Indian law it’s a bigamy. We both know it was an innocent mistake. We should have filed for divorce before getting married again. We never had any physical relations. My question is: Is it possible to get divorced now even though i am already married to my second wife or should we just leave the file stay at Subida center in the village and never touch it? Is it possible for officials to find out about this even if neither of us and our relatives report it to them?.